Baby Steps

Today, I want to introduce you to another one of my She Speaks Graduate friends! I promised to share with you some of my favorite bloggers over the next couple months and here is another one!
I follow Teri’s blog, keepingitpersonal.com, and enjoy her thoughts and wisdom. I hope you enjoy her post today and don’t forget to stop over to her “place” soon!

 Baby Steps
Do you ever set your mind on something or set goals and just want so so desperately to be in a different place; to get there? feel differently? or desire to have accomplished something sooner?
In our “hurry up” society a lot of us find discontentment in being where we are, right now.
I can remember back several years ago, when I was going through a very difficult season in my life. I so desired to no-longer-feel the feelings that felt. I wanted my situation to be different than what it was.
I had a storm raging inside of me. I couldn’t find peace with where I was and I found myself continually trying to force situations to be how I thought they should be; I wanted to control the outcome.
As the days slowly passed by, despite all my anxious feelings, manipulation, and scheming thoughts — what happened, just happened!

Of course I’ve experienced other similar situations, unfortunately that was not the only one! Friendships, financial matters, career, and family situations are other areas where I’ve tried to hurry-up the process.

What I’ve found is, it just does not work…

…and it’s just not worth all the energy it takes trying to figure everything out.

My findings have brought me to this place; I’ve turned my focus on ME, my internal self.

I am finally shining the spot light on the changes that I need to make with-in myself and my attitudes. I am beginning to see more clearly and let go of all the things that I used to worry about, tried to control, and set out to manipulate.

I’m turning to and clinging to acceptance, patience, and understanding.

The results? Peace and contentment…it feels GREAT!

What others do, I cannot control.

What I do, I can decide.

I am taking baby steps — the slower I go, the more I see, the more I enjoy, the more I appreciate.

My prayer is that God will continue to bring me peace and contentment as I slowly walk on my journey — and that He would give me the eyes to not miss what He has in store for me and allow me to be patient and wait on His perfect timing.

IF we jump to where “we think we should be” we will miss the messages and learning experiences on the way. Those experiences mold us, shape us, challenge us, and take us to new places – we grow!

It simply takes baby steps to get there…

Are you desiring to be somewhere you are not? Do you feel peace and contentment? If not, consider joining me…baby steps.

Keeping it Personal,

Teri Johnson
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I’d like you to meet my friend…

Greetings Bloggy friends! I’m so excited to share something new with you here on my blog. At my Writer/Speaker conference this summer, I met some amazing women who have the same passion as I do with words. Since then, I have been following many of the blogs and watching for their books to be published. I have enjoyed them so much, I wanted to share them with all of you! See–only children do share…sometimes! Over the next couple of months I will share them with you and also share the information as to where you can find them typing away and sharing their hearts with the blog world!

First up, is my friend, Michele Montgomery. If you like a suspenseful read – then Michele’s got it for you. SHE KILLS ME! I will be reading along and then she has the nerve to say, “come back for the end of this.” Ah!!! I often have to write to her and tell her she’s got me hanging again…hurry up and write it so I can find out what’s happening! Obviously, I’m not good at waiting!! Letting out a secret there! So for today, please read Michele’s post below and enjoy. Then make sure you go find her other postings over here!  Thanks for stopping by, Michele.

Lizards Are Icky!

The bright blue sky and warm summer sun contributed to my carefree mood. Smiling to myself, I happily grabbed my keys, purse and iphone and headed out for a morning free of little ones dangling off of each hip. Mentally cataloguing my list of errands, I offered a quick prayer of thanks for the rare and long overdue opportunity for some much needed time alone.

Stepping casually over the threshold, I glimpsed a solitary lizard resting on the doorstep. The unexpected visitor caused me to tumble out in a last second attempt to avoid it. Luckily, the lizard did not attack me as I envisioned. Thanks to my quick and completely ungraceful moments, I cleared the doorway without having to step anywhere near the offensive reptile.

Climbing into my car, I hesitated. Images of my adventurous 2 year old happily examining the lizard and hugging me warmly played vividly across my mind. With a deep sigh, I clinked off the engine and returned to the house.

The lizard continued to lazily sun himself on my step. So, I jumped over the threshold and quickly shut the door before starting my quest to find an appropriate container. Spying a mason jar, I grabbed a pair of scissors and poked several holes in the lid. Stepping back to admire my handiwork, I smiled. It was perfect! However, with a sudden frown I realized that the time had come to actually catch the lizard.

If it wasn’t clear up front, I don’t like lizards. In fact, I don’t like reptiles of any kind. However, for my precious toddler, I resigned myself to the task of catching the creepy and very icky lizard. Wrapping my courage securely around me, I slowly knelt down next to our visitor.

I placed the jar carefully in front of the lizard and urgently wished him inside. Choosing to be stubborn, the lizard refused to obey my commands and continued to rest lazily on the doorstep. Apparently, the difficult lizard needed some encouragement. Firmly griping the lid, I gave it a slight nudge.

Let’s pause here for a moment. I realize that all of God’s creatures are precious and special. It’s just that some of them are better appreciated from a distance. I really didn’t want to catch this lizard anymore than he wanted to live in my jar. Yet, for the love of my inquisitive 2 year old, I offered a quick prayer for protection and bravely faced my fear.

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10 (NIV)

With a deep breath and determination, I focused on my task and gave the offending reptile a soft push and…the lizard fell onto its back.

Wait. That wasn’t supposed to happen.

Leaning in for a closer look, I blinked in surprise at the realization that my fears had been woefully misplaced. Sitting back, I tried to process this rather unexpected turn of events. The laughter began bubbling up from deep inside my chest as I accepted the fact that a dead lizard had caused me so much fear and anxiety.

How often in life do we fear something only to discover later that there was nothing to be afraid of? How much time have we spent with anxious thoughts for events or situations that never even occur? Thinking back on all the time I’ve wasted fearing the unknown, I softly shake my head. That is not what God wants for us. It is not what He wants for me. He wants me to trust in Him and give my anxiety over to Him.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7 (NIV)

I love that God can use a lizard to remind me of that fact.




  I am a Christian, wife, mother of six, fulltime employee, and an aspiring writer.  Our non-traditional, blended family keeps our lives interesting as we attempt to navigate and balance the ever changing worlds of parenting, relationships and working.  Join me as I try to keep my eyes on God as we journey north.  
You have circled this mountain long enough; now turn north.  Deuteronomy 2:3 (NASB)
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Thanks for reading along today and giving Michele some bloglove!  I hope you enjoyed her writing today and will pop on over to her blog sometime soon.  You just never know – it may be your favorite blog to follow yet.  After mine, of course!

…and that’s all I have to say about that!

Tammy

Fall Freeze Frame

If you live in Northeast Ohio – has this day been perfect or what?  This is my most favorite time of the year with all the color changes of the trees, the crispness in the evening air, the bright blue sky and big puffy clouds and good ‘ol Mr. Sun when he decides to come out and play.

So – I’d like to make a wish and have a dream come true.  Could we please freeze frame today and keep it until, oh, say…April?  Then in April start turning up the heat again.

The problem with the beautiful Ohio Fall is that it is usually followed by icky snow in the winter.  Well, not exactly “usually”, more like “always”!  I’m not a snow person.  I’m best sticking my toes in the sand at water’s edge and letting the sun beat down on me until I’m so hot I have to take a dip to cool off.  Then start the process over again.  Snow just makes me grumpy.  Snow does not “Tickle Me Pink” in the least.  Yet, even in those times when the sky opens and the white stuff falls and falls and falls some more, I can still find something to laugh about…

Like the time I let our little dog out to “do business” and I lost her in the snow drift….

Like the time I did a couple 360*’s during a storm on a major highway ending up the wrong direction and broke into laughter realizing the big semi had everyone blocked until I was done doing doughnuts…

Like the time we had a snow day, so we all took off for ice skating and I learned that being the end person on the crack the whip line is NOT the best spot and doesn’t make YOU go the fastest (thanks Chuck C.)…

Like the time we went tubing and rolled my cousin down the hill inside the earthmover intertube (see blogpost of January 13, 2011)…

Like the time my Mom tried to walk across to the neighbors house to have coffee while the snow and ice kept coming and she hit ice, went horizontal at about 4 foot in the air, then came down–hopped up and continued on…

Wait!  I’m thinking that Ohio Winter following Ohio Fall may not be so awful bad after all!

So, you know what, bring on the Fall!  I’ll deal with what ‘ol man Winter will bring when it gets here.  And get here it will.  For now, I’m going to love the beautiful colors of leaves that have changed, the blue skies and Mr. Sun as long as I can.  Oh yeah, and Fall brings apple season in Ohio and I’m thinking it’s time for my two Fall traditions–Apple Crisp and a batch of Caramelcorn, too!

What’s your favorite time of year?  I’d love for you to share it with all of us here.

…and that’s all I have to say about that!

Tammy